TOEFL Essay Topic 121 - Some people trust their first impressions about a person`s character because they believe these judgments are generally correct. Other people do not judge a person`s character quickly because they believe first impressions are often wrong. Compare these two attitudes. Which attitude do you agree with? Support your choice with specific examples.
When we know a new friend, the first impression is very important.If he is very politely,we will like him and
When we know a new friend, the first impression is very important.If he is very politely,we will like him and think him a friendly people. In contrast with this,if he is very arrogant,the first impression given us is not good,we will figure him as a unfriendly man.Of course the first impression is very important,it can give us the others the basic impressions.But the first impression is not always correct,we can judge persons only depend on first impressions.In my view, there are at least two reasons about it.
The first reason is that it must take a long time to know about people.For example when we meet a person at the first time,this person is a good man but he happen to feel sick at that time.So maybe he looks so cool and silent,he do not want to say a word.These behaviors maybe make us misapprehend,we think he is an arrogant man.So you see,this impression is not correct.Only we get along with him further,we know how person he is.
The second reason is that if you excessively believe your first impression it do not avail you to know people truly.As example,if some people give you bad first impressions.You will have a adamant thought about these people.You can not change your though whatever he do for you.It is unfair for those people and it is not good for you.In others people eyes, you will be a incorrigible person.Maybe you can not communicate with others smoothly.
Of course first impression is very improtant,we all hope that we can give new friend a good first impression.But we should not judge a person only depend on the first impression.I am sure that if we have a goodness heart,we will give others good impressions no matter the first impression or the long intercourse.