TOEFL Essay Topic 117 - Some people choose friends who are different from themselves. Others choose friends who are similar to themselves. Compare the advantages of having friends who are different from you with the advantages of having friends who are similar to you. Which kind of friend do you prefer for yourself? Why?
Different types of friends
In our life we encounter different people with whom we build some kind of relationship. Some people might become our arch enemies, while others we can label our friends.
There are two enirely different approaches for choosing friends. One is to make friendship with people who are different from us and the other is to bind with people who are simular to ourselves. Both types of friends have their valuable qualities.
Firstly I would like to begin discussing friends who are different from ourselves. This approach has some major advantages. Some of them are learning interesting things for different people,
for their character etc. and eventualy using this knowledge we could learn to understand the people around us. For example, when I was eight grade five years ago
I met a person, who was a quite, tranquil and peaceful, unlike me hasty, noisy and intemperate. This boy changed thoroughly my view about people and my behavior.
I learned from him that not everything is what it seems to be and I am grateful to him for this important lesson.
Secondly friendship with people who are simular to us has also many possitive facets like understanding each other easyly there are less chances to begin a quarrel with those kind of friends.
For example I will narrate about friends who I know for years. We know each other well and even if we dispute sometimes soon we reconcile and forget about the event,
because I know that none of us deliberately wanted to offend the others.
In conclusion I will say that I prefer to make friends who are different from me, because I can learn so much from them. However both types of friends have
many valuable qualities, which make them our closest people.
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